Unmanic Monday: Embracing Pain and Love in the Journey of the Human Experience

In the quiet corners of our lives, sometimes unexpected encounters hold profound lessons. Recently, I found myself immersed in the teachings of the Dream Arc animal codex by Richard Rudd when an elusive mantis appeared deep within my home. 

Little did I know, this moment would become a catalyst for an enriched reflection on the intertwining nature of pain and love in the human experience.

Rudd’s words resonated…

“Out of your wound will pour forth sweetness. And your wound is what makes you human. The final stage in opening our hearts is to learn how to let our love interface with the human world. Human love is down-to-earth. It’s practical, caring, and selfless. Human love respects boundaries and is willing to operate within limitations even though it is unlimited. It is through our wound that love comes to earth. It is about care and harmlessness. It is about seeing all the expressions of love in all their rainbow colours and accepting them utterly.” - The Dream Arc.

It struck a chord, leading me to confront deep ancestral pain rooted in the fear of love. This journey of facing the pain, as challenging as it may be, has been transformative. It's a stark reminder that without pain, we might never truly comprehend the depths of pleasure—an enduring paradox in our existence.

This Dream Arc experience emphasizes the final stage of opening our hearts, encouraging us to let our love interface with the human world. 

As I navigate through this profound integration process, I extend an invitation to all fellow travelers on this human journey. 

To Unmanic your Monday, let us collectively engage in a reflection of this. 

Consider a story how you faced pain and embraced love.

  • How has your wound become the source of sweetness in your life?

  • What paradoxes have you uncovered in your journey?

Whether through writing, art, or a simple moment of introspection, be in authenticity. 

If you care to share, use the hashtag #HeartJourneyReflections to connect and share your experiences. 

We’ll create a tapestry of shared wisdom, reminding ourselves and others that it is through our wounds that the most profound love emerges.

In the tapestry of our shared human experience, may we find solace, strength, and inspiration as we navigate the paradoxes of pain and pleasure, weaving our stories into the grand narrative of life.

If you want to go deeper, I am always here to journey with you! DM me, book a one-on-one, circle with me, or consider retreating with me (the Mystic Enchantment Retreat in Bali is coming up quickly)!