Unmanic Monday: Navigating Anger, Triggers, and Personal Boundaries on the Path of Awakening

In our journey of personal growth and spiritual awakening, we often find ourselves confronted with a multitude of emotions, each playing a unique role in our transformation.

It’s been happening to me lately—a lot. Last week I had a qualified professional, project something on to me which was not only inappropriate, I would say unethical.

It prompted me to share, and address three powerful prompts for this week.

1) Anger

One powerful emotion that we all encounter at some point is anger. It's a natural part of being human and can serve as a catalyst for profound self-discovery and healing.

Anger is a prompt to SET BOUNDARIES!! If it’s coming up for you - where can you set a boundary?

Anger is a powerful emotion. It can also be an indicator of unmet needs, unresolved issues, or a call to action.

Acknowledging and embracing our anger is a vital step towards understanding ourselves better. When we allow ourselves to feel and express anger in healthy ways, it can lead to personal growth and transformation.

2) Triggers

Triggers are the catalysts that often lead to the eruption of anger. They are those sensitive spots within us, often stemming from past experiences, that can be activated by certain words, actions, or situations.

There are treasures in the triggers!

Recognizing our triggers is an essential aspect of self-awareness. When we understand what sets off our anger, we can work towards addressing and healing those underlying issues. After all, they are about us, not the other person (or my barking dog for that matter).

As we walk the path of awakening, we should anticipate triggers. They are not obstacles but rather opportunities for growth. Each trigger offers us a chance to explore uncharted emotional territory and to heal old wounds. While they may be challenging, they can lead to profound self-discovery and transformation.

3) Grief and Anger

As we navigate the path of awakening, we may find that unprocessed grief from our past triggers feelings of anger. It's essential to create space for ourselves to process this grief and the anger that accompanies it. By doing so, we can release pent-up emotions and move towards a place of healing and peace.

So all this being said, let’s circle back to boundaries, we have to set them!

Personal boundaries are the safeguard of our emotional well-being. They ensure we are not subjected to unnecessary harm or negative influences. It's common to have someone we trust project intense energy onto us. Setting and maintaining personal boundaries becomes crucial.

Anger, triggers, grief, and personal boundaries are all integral parts of our awakening journey. It's through understanding and navigating these emotions and challenges that we can move closer to our true selves and greater self-awareness.

If this is an area where you could use support, I’d love to help you embrace each challenge as an opportunity for growth. I have many opportunities to do so! You can join a retreat (click “Retreats” on the menu), schedule a one on one (look at click “Work With Me” in the menu), or join a circle (check out the “Events” page)!

In full support of setting healthy boundaries,
Alara